About Shelley

A compassionate, neuroscience-informed approach to therapy

for children, teens, parents, and families across Ontario

Registered Psychotherapist

Shelley Sayle-Udall

This work is deeply personal...

My own life experiences have shaped how I understand and support others.

Throughout my life and career, I’ve found myself drawn to supporting others through difficult moments — helping them make sense of what they’re experiencing and find a way forward.

How I work...

My approach to therapy is grounded in both compassion and science.

I integrate evidence-based practices with an understanding of how the nervous system works, helping you move beyond simply coping to truly understanding what’s happening beneath the surface.

In our work together, we focus on:

Understanding the “why” behind thoughts, emotions, and behaviours

Recognizing patterns rooted in your nervous system

Developing practical, personalized strategies for change

Building emotional regulation, resilience, and confidence

This work is collaborative, supportive, and tailored to your unique experiences

Over time, I’ve also had my own experiences sitting on the other side of the therapy chair. These moments gave me a deeper understanding of how vulnerable it can feel to reach out for support — and how important it is to feel truly seen, understood, and guided in a meaningful way.

Through both my professional work and personal experiences with adversity and trauma, I’ve had the opportunity to learn not just tools and strategies, but deeper lessons about how the mind and body respond to stress, emotion, and life’s challenges.

I do this work because I believe that when people are supported in the right way, real change is possible — and life can feel more manageable, more connected, and even meaningful again.

Much of my work focuses on supporting children, teens, and families - with a particular emphasis on parents and caregivers.

Children don’t have full control over their environment, which means their emotional experiences are often shaped by what’s happening around them.

Because of this, meaningful change often happens when parents feel more supported, regulated, and confident in how they respond.

This isn’t about blame — it’s about understanding.

When parents feel more grounded and aligned, children begin to feel safer — and we often see significant shifts in anxiety, behaviour, and emotional wellbeing.

Supporting Children Begins with Supporting Parents

Who I Support

I work with:

Children experiencing anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or behavioural challenges

Teens navigating stress, anxiety, or low mood

Parents feeling burnt out, frustrated, or unsure how to help

Adults working through anxiety, depression, or trauma

Families seeking greater alignment, connection, and understanding

Finding the Right Fit Matters

Reaching out for support can feel like a big step.

If you're considering therapy, I invite you to connect and see if this feels like the right fit for you.

Registered Psychotherapist - Shelley Sayle-Udall

Hi, I’m Shelley.

I work with children, teens, parents and families who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward.

Through both my professional experience and personal journey, I understand how difficult it can be to navigate stress, trauma and emotional challenges - especially when you’re trying to support the people you care about most.

My approach is grounded in compassion, clarity, and practical support that helps people feel more confident, more connected, and more in control.

I provide online therapy services across Ontario

HEALING TRAUMATIZED FAMILIES - CORRECTIVE ATTACHMENT THERAPY

Dr. Terry Levy, Evergreen Psychotherapy

INTERGENERATIONAL TRAUMA TREATMENT MODEL (ITTM)

Valerie Copping Psy.D.

THE NEUROBIOLOGY OF TRAUMA

National Institute for the Application of Clinical Behavioural Medicine (NICABM)

HOW TO TARGET THE LIMBIC SYSTEM TO REVERSE TRAUMA'S PHYSIOLOGICAL IMPRINT

National Institute for the Application of Clinical Behavioural Medicine (NICABM)

NEUROPLASTICITY - REWIRING THE BRAIN AFTER TRAUMA

Dr. Diane Poole-Heller & Lisa Wemberger

REWIRE YOUR BRAIN

Dr. Dave Rabin

BRAINSPOTTING - A Neuroexperiential Approach to Healing Trauma

Dr. David Grand & Dr. Diane Poole-Heller

SUPPORTING PUBLIC SAFETY PERSONNAL WITH COMPLEX MENTAL HEALTH INJURIES

ECHO Public Safety Personnel (PSP) Program

MASTERING THE TREATMENT OF TRAUMA - WHY MORAL INJURY REQUIRES DIFFERENT TREATMENT

National Institute for the Application of Clinical Behavioural Medicine (NICABM)

ECOSYSTEMIC STRUCTURAL FAMILY THERAPY

Pinky Mehta-Patel AAMFT, Philadelphia Child & Family Training Centre

HEALING COUPLES CONFLICT & REPAIR

Dr. Terry Levy & Dr. Diane Poole-Heller

STARTING FRESH and RETURN TO WHOLENESS

Dr. Gabor Mate & Daniel Mate

Certified MENTAL HEALTH & CLINICAL NUTRITION SPECIALIST

Dr. Vicki Steine

THE SUPERPOWERS OF YOUR GUT and VITAL HEALTH

Dr. Zack Bush

SOLUTION FOCUSED THERAPY

Dr. Ron Warner

COGNITIVE BEHAVIOURAL THERAPY

Dr. Greg Dubord, Dr. Adam Lodzinski, Dr. Mishy Elmpak

STRUCTURAL FAMILY THERAPY

Dr. Vince Caccamo

SINGLE SESSION & NARRATIVE THERAPY

Karen Young RSW

NON-VIOLENT CRISIS INTERVENTION (CPI)

APPLIED SUICIDE INTERVENTION SKILLS TRAINING (ASIST)

My work is supported by extensive training in trauma, attachment, family systems and evidence-based approaches

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Online trauma-informed therapy for children, teens, parents, adults and families across Ontario.

Supporting you and your family with clarity, compassion, and connection.

Get in Touch

📍 Ontario, Canada (Online Services)


📧 hello@psychotherapywithshelley.ca


📞 800-880-2969

Online Therapy across Ontario - Supporting clients in Kingston, Toronto, Ottawa and across urban and rural communities